When we talk about an abuser, what comes to mind might be someone that repeatedly oppresses others.
We associate abuse with insulting, cruel, and generally offensive language. While this is true, narcissistic abuse, unfortunately, goes further than that.
Most times, it comes in precise form that you won't always detect as abuse.
Someone who manipulates and confuses you, for instance, is not directly abusing you.
These mind games and many others are the forms that many narcissist cases of abuse take. With time, as the abuse proceeds, you develop what is called a trauma bond with your abuser and accept it as a normal way of life. No one in their right mind would subject themselves to narcissistic abuse.
However, it occurs in covert forms and can accumulate gradually.
The damage does not happen in distinct ways that you expect but the invisible scars are there along with the pain... With time, you start to lose yourself to the person in control since the abuse has broken down your self-esteem and self-worth.
Imagine this: You have been violated to the point that your sense of reality is distorted.
They manipulated you, lied to you, gaslighted you, and ridiculed you so much that you have lost faith in yourself. You don't believe in yourself or your emotions anymore. You thought you knew your partner. You felt he cared deeply for you and you expected a happily ever after with them.
They showered you with so much love that your sixth sense objected.
Then, suddenly, they showed their true colors and your relationship became a cycle of abuse, harassment, and constant bullying.
The sad part is that narcissism abuse does not occur in apparent ways.
It takes being sensitive, knowing what to look for to see past the veil and detect what's really going on.
The good news is that this manual will provide a helping hand in uncovering the truth about narcissism.
In this book, you will learn more about:
-Recognize narcissism
-Narcissist personality
-Narcissism and the narcissist
-How a narcissist hoovers an empath
-How a narcissist sabotages an empath
-The psychology of the emotional abuser
-Mental cruelty and what to avoid when you are dealing with a narcissist
-Narcissus on the couch ..and more!
We won't just be presenting you with theories and teachings about narcissism.
We will also explore how to deal with a narcissist directly. If you have been abused in the past or find yourself in this current situation, these options we have provided will help recover your sanity, get your life back, and move on with a renewed sense of strength and vigor.
