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Holding Tight-Letting Go: Raising Healthy Kids in AnxiousTimes(English)

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When to hold on; when to let go-a constant dilemma of parenthood. This timely book examines the balance between these powerful dynamics. How parents can instill confidence and security in children and how professionals can recognize and respond when this process goes awry. Holding too long and too tight? Letting go too soon and too easily? Includes down-to-earth descriptions of family systems and identity development and guidance on remaining an emotional anchor in children's lives as they launch toward independence.

Psychologist Benjamin Garber is author of Keeping Kids Out of the Middle and Developmental Psychology for Family Law Professionals.



Table of Contents:
Introduction On the Survival of the Species; Inter-generational Dominoes Chapter 2 Where Do You Get Your Emotional Fuel? People are like Cars: What's Your MPG? Are You Ready to Become Another Person's Gas Station? Chapter 3 The Oceanic Self The Newborn Experiences Everything as Self; The "Drip" Metaphor Chapter 4 Me v. Not Me Childhood as Emergence; The Anchor Metaphor; Tantrums, Practice and Faux Separations Chapter 5 Healthy Anger Anger is Part of a Loving Relationship, Not the End of Love; How Do You Express Your Anger? Chapter 6 "NOT ME!" Adolescence and Rejection; Rageful Separations; Launching and Re-entry; Tough-Love Chapter 7 Accessorizing Self Boyfriends and Girlfriends, Peer Groups, Gang Colors, Team Members, Religion and Identity Chapter 8 Fractured Self Trauma Can Create Fault Lines That Lay Dormant, Like a Mine, Until Your Partner or Your Child Steps on It Chapter 9 Becoming a Parent Redefining Self for Mothers ... and Fathers? Three's Company? Chapter 10 Letting Go From the Moment of Birth On; Two Steps Forward, One Step Back; "But Billy's Parents Let Him!" Chapter 11 Holding Tight The Healthy Parent, Limits, Boundaries and Follow-Through Chapter 12 Transitional Objects Helping Our Kids Internalize the Security We Provide Chapter 13 Technology and Holding Tight Baby Monitors, GPS Trackers and Text Messaging as Umbilical Cords Chapter 14 Divorce Divorce With or Without Marriage Letting Go of an Intimate Partner Can Be like Losing a Limb; How Do You Compensate? Chapter 15 When Needy Parents Hold Too Tight: Adultified, Parentified and Infantitized Children Sometimes the Dominoes Fall Backwards: Fractured Parents Seek Their Children's Love Chapter 16 When Needy Parents Can't Share: Parental Alienation Selfishly Undermining the Child's Opportunity to Love Her Other Parent Chapter 17 Repairing Self "In Case of a Sudden Loss of Cabin Pressure..."; Psychotherapy, Meds, Exercise, Spirituality Chapter 18 Adult Children as Our Caregivers? The Harsh Realities of Aging Chapter 19 Death and Loss and Grieving Letting Go for Good Chapter 20 Letting Go and Holding Tight Giving Our Children Permission to Become Healthy Parents Themselves


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Product Details
  • ISBN-13: 9781936268900
  • Publisher: HCI Press
  • Publisher Imprint: HCI Press
  • Height: 228 mm
  • No of Pages: 198
  • Series Title: English
  • Sub Title: Raising Healthy Kids in AnxiousTimes
  • Width: 152 mm
  • ISBN-10: 1936268906
  • Publisher Date: 19 May 2016
  • Binding: Paperback
  • Language: English
  • Returnable: Y
  • Spine Width: 13 mm
  • Weight: 283 gr


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